Monday, December 3, 2007

The Taboo

Relationship...BubblePoppers has a love/hate relationship for the word 'relationship' as relationships are sometimes pleasant, sometimes not...sometimes fun, sometimes not. Ultimately, to BubblePoppers, a relationship is complicated, combination of faithful, commitment, sincerity, responsibility etc...i strongly feel that for 2 persons in a relationship need to meet as many of these 'requirements' as possible in order to have the relationship to be secured and not easy shaken or broken off...After certain time period, the particular relationship can be elevated to the next level when the timing is right, or at least one party thinks so...this is when the friction kicks in as one party is not ready to move to the next level while the other is totally ready and he or she tries to convince the not-so-ready-party. The not-so-ready-party does not feel keen and he or she prefers to maintain the current relationship as it is. From here, different views are taken into account and somehow the relationship can't move to the next level unless both parties have agreed to do so. This is where the conflict starts...things just turn ugly and after the damage is done, both got hurt so much that both decided to take some time-off to take a step back...then, the once was not-so-ready-party has finally convince self and pluck out enough courage to make a decision to keep the relationship for the time being...The story ends here but life goes on...H & M, best wishes to both of you...always support the final decision regardless of the outcome of the decision...for M, it maybe a bitter ending but this ending may resemble a sweet beginning for you...

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